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Re: why some people hate cops

Posted by Steve Smith on Sep 24, 2020; 11:47pm
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Nick sez-

 

Well, I hate people who hate. 

I am intolerant only of the intolerant and I have nothing to hate but hate itself!

Hating something, particularly any category as broad as “religious people”, is like putting your own eyes out and blaming the darkness. 

I was confronted some time back with the "idea" that liberals were self-loathing...  which put me off some, and while I am not exactly liberal, or even progressive I am more sympathetic and aligned with those who self-identify as such than, for example, their converse (kka Conservatives?).     I've slowly come to an ideation about this which is that there is something in common between having a liberal/progressive/empathic? view of the world and being (at least somewhat) self-questioning which (as Nick illustrates) can spiral into something *like* self-loathing (at least from the outside).   I think this is one of the primary mechanisms that "whomever-fits-the-shoe" use to "own liberals" as they so proudly proclaim... if they can twist someone into questioning/resenting/nay...*hating* themselves at any level, then they feel like they "gotcha!".

I hate myself when I hate.  But I think the hatred described here is mostly rhetorical.

I took Marcus statement to be primarily hyperbolic with a dash of rhetoric...  or vice-versa?   I also took Stephen's strong statement against it as a primarily rhetorical mode of bringing focus to the topic I think he really wants to talk about... which I can't define myself, but has something to do with trying to understand "the Sacred", using the language/perspective of Science.   Not making Science into a Religion (as Dave might think we do here) nor *explaining* or *proving* the existence of God/Heaven/Grace, etc.  with Science, but acknowledging a common (possibly exhaustively persuasive) sense that humans (conscious beings?) have of there being things which are transcendent, or sacred or somehow within our apprehension but beyond our articulation?    Science is "designed" to chip away at the mysteries... pin them down and define them, and chip away at their edges, and occasionally do broad sweeps to clear away the debris from that, but does not truly pretend to sweep all questions away for all times, or even be able to, though Russell/Whitehead thought they had done that with Mathematics until Kurt Godel came along and swept *that* misapprehension away!


There is a way of talking on FRIAM that involves using hyperbole with a wink, and, given that 80 percent of Americans are more or less religious, I think this is an example.  It’s almost equivalent to saying, “I hate people,” which I can complete understand, but wouldn’t admit to out loud.  Actually,  I don’t think there are a lot of haters in this group. 

I think we are at our best as a group when we talk about things we (1) care about, (2) on which we have some [expert?} experience to bring to bear, and on which our minds are at least slightly ajar.    I do wish complexity would rear its ugly head more often in our discussions, but I would guess we have drifted away from it both in caring and in knowledge, so, if we tried to get a discussion going, it would be like burping up last night’s Famiglia Cribari. µ

 

Nick

µ  For those of you who are under 80, Famiglia Cribari was the graduate student wine of choice in the 60’s.  You bought it in jugs.  If you brought a whole jug to a pot luck, you were forgiven for not bringing any food. 

Ah... the Boone's Farm or Mad Dog 20/20 of Boomers and perhaps Xr's alike?  Or for the hipsters, maybe just a 12 of PBR... 

- Steve  



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